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Rest From What?

Matthew 11:25-30

Harry Stoliker
March 8, 2009 EBC

Rest From What?


We're focusing primarily on 2 verse this week: Matthew 11:28 "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls." Last week we saw that the context of our verse was talking about gaining soul rest from deadly spiritual diseases like pride, unbelief and indifference to the message of the Kingdom of Christ. I said I would try to unpack some other things that our souls need rest from this week. The issue we are dealing with is finding in Christ rest for our souls. That all begins by finding in Christ salvation for our souls. Salvation is the primary, biggest, most important rest that every soul needs. Hebrews 4 talks about entering God's Sabbath rest. The writer isn't talking about the OT 7th day when no work was permitted, he's talking about an eternal rest for the soul in heaven that comes by faith in Christ. He doesn't want the people to miss this eternal rest through disobedience and unbelief.

People try to work their way into God's favor and forgiveness with self-righteous works. They think of righteousness in God's eyes as a reward for religious or moral effort. It's a sort of "You owe me for this God" mentality. "I haven't acted like Hitler so I deserve some slack on judgment day." "I've been moral by any human standard, so I certainly should get some credit for that." "I've served on 10 different committees at church over the years so you can't say I don't give to the work of Christ. That should count for something."

Here's my list of deadly, crippling and spiritual life draining sicknesses of the soul that we need rest from in the work of Jesus Christ. There is definite overlap in some of these categories.

  1. Rest from self-justification: this is the "You owe me heaven, God" attitude I just described and touched on last week. It is commonly called works of self-righteousness. There is no self-righteousness and trying to create it is THE most exhausting and fruitless work any soul could attempt. Trying to impress God with how moral you think you are is just stupid. Isaiah 64:6 "We have all become like one who is unclean, and all our righteous deeds are like a polluted garment." NLT: "We are all infected and impure with sin. When we proudly display our righteous deeds, we find they are but filthy rags." Jesus gives rest from this by providing His own righteousness as our clean clothes and our only entrance to heaven.

  2. Rest from self-sanctificationself-victory over particular evils. At times our souls get weary even though we are true Christians. Part of the reason for that is we have trusted Christ for eternal rest, but then we go to work trying to sanctify ourselves. Our thinking is very subtle in that we suppose we are now responsible to be holy as God is holy, thinking that we innately have the energy, strength and ability to make ourselves holy. This has ruined many a good Christian because of repeated failures. They just run into brick wall after brick wall failing in this self-victory mentality. Satan loves to go one-on-one with believers who function out of self-sanctification because he always wins. Turn to Colossians 2:6-7 "Therefore, just as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, rooted and built up in him and established in the faith, just as you were taught, abounding in thanksgiving." What's key here are the words "just as." Just as you received Christ Jesus, so walk in him… that covers salvation and sanctification. We received Christ through faith alone, completely by faith, dependent on faith in His saving power. That's exactly how we are to be sanctified, not sanctification through spiritual self-effort and spiritual sweat. Doing battle with Satan and sin should make us lean on His power by faith.

    How do you do this, Harry? When you are facing temptation and sin, your response has to be: "Father, Lord Jesus, Holy Spirit, come to my rescue! Put your power in me to defeat Satan! Don't let me think I can do it in my own strength. I'm consciously calling out to you for your strength." James 4:6-8 "But he gives more grace. Therefore it says, "God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble. Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded." Notice how the submitting and drawing near come before the command to cleanse your hands and purify your heart! Be conscious of submitting to His power and will before you attempt to defeat Satan. Turn now to 1 Thessalonians 5:23 "Now may the God of peace himself sanctify you completely, and may your whole spirit and soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ." Who is the true 'sanctifier'? He is the only one capable of doing a "complete" job of it. We grow in actual holiness through the work of the Holy Spirit in our lives.

    This sanctification process is described as staying in line and connection with the Holy Spirit in Paul's letter to the Galatians. Gal. 5:16 "So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature." Gal. 5:18 "But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law." Gal. 5:22 "But the fruit of the Spirit is…" Gal. 5:25 "Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit." What does this mean? It means that you will save yourself a lot of fruitless soul-wearying work if you rely on the power of the Spirit in the first place as you try to conquer sin in your life.

    Come to Jesus for the filling of the Holy Spirit. That will bring rest to your soul.

  3. Rest from self-achievement of God's favor and love. Have you ever caught yourself working for God's love? That's when we feel like God will love us more if we are more obedient or more productive in serving Him. This is a burdensome understanding of love. It is entirely wrong, but very subtle. Achievement based loved is just another system of works. God's love is of such a pure, majestic, transcendent nature that it is not a commodity to be earned or bartered for. 1 John 4:8-10 "Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins."

    Love is God's nature, His being. He initiated love toward us long before we were born. There was no performance basis for love when God decided to love us unconditionally from all eternity. How then could the quality of that love suddenly in time become conditional? As His sons and daughters, we share in the Trinitarian love that existed among Father, Son, and Spirit before there was time. Jeremiah 31:3 "The Lord appeared to me from far away. I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore I have continued my faithfulness to you." Rom. 8:29 "Those whom God foreknew he also predestined…" The word "foreknow" means to 'fore love" – God placed his love upon us and predestined us because he loved us. The word foreknow points to God's covenantal affection on His elect people.

    Turn to Galatians 4:8-9 "Formerly, when you did not know God, you were enslaved to those that by nature are not gods. 9 But now that you have come to know God, or rather to be known by God, how can you turn back again to the weak and worthless elementary principles of the world, whose slaves you want to be once more?" Can you see what Paul did here? He reminded them of the time when they were slaves to false gods, unbelievers, lost in the pagan world. Then he reminds them that now they know God – that is, they have a personal saving knowledge of God. He catches himself and says it in a different way – "rather to be known by God." Salvation is born out of God "knowing" us, bringing us into a loving, saving relationship with Himself. God loved us first, God loves us unconditionally, God loves us eternally. Don't insult him by acting as though the basis of his love for you hinges on your performance rather than on His eternal decree of sovereign election. You have all the love of God that can possibly be had, right now! Stop working for what you already have and can't lose!

    Come to Jesus for rest for your soul if this is your problem.

  4. Rest from the hard work of earning the love of other people. This tiring work is similar to the last one. There may be someone in your life that you want to love you but they aren't. So what do you do? You work yourself to the bone trying to get them to love you. Because you have placed a higher value on their love than on God's love, they have become your master. They control you by withholding the love you crave from them. They have placed a heavy yoke on your neck that Jesus doesn't want you to bear. You have to realize that if you learn to rejoice in the eternal, covenantal, unchanging, sacrificial love of God in Christ, then you won't be "love-starved" or "love-enslaved" by any human being. Like the book of Revelation says in essence "You have lost your first love" – so go back and get it! Come to Jesus for rest for your soul if this is your problem

  5. Rest from guilt for past sin. This is a trick of the devil to keep your spiritual heart completely exhausted trying to do penance for your own sin. Many believers are spent and weary from self-imposed guilt from sin they have confessed to God a million times but just won't believe that Jesus' blood has washed away. There is such a thing as Protestant Penance. It isn't saying the Hail Mary or Our Father, but it is a secret self-loathing that robs you of experiencing the radiant joy of the Holy Spirit. At the root of this soul-crushing works mentality is a tenacious unbelief that God has fully forgiven us on the sole basis of the precious blood of Jesus Christ. We think that just can't be enough! We feel we have to add something to the gospel of forgiveness in Christ, something like self-hatred or self-forgiveness, or depression. All this is so wrong, so evil, so wearisome. Listen to David rejoice over God's deliverance. He wasn't doing any penance in Psalms 34:2-6 "My soul makes its boast in the Lord; let the humble hear and be glad. 3 Oh, magnify the Lord with me, and let us exalt his name together! 4 I sought the Lord, and he answered me and delivered me from all my fears. 5 Those who look to him are radiant, and their faces shall never be ashamed. 6 This poor man cried, and the Lord heard him and saved him out of all his troubles."

    Come to Jesus for rest for your soul if this is your problem

  6. Rest from comparing yourself to other people. This is a disease that wears the soul out faster than most others. Its root is pure pride and insecurity. It drives you to always be looking at what other people are doing, what they are achieving, what they own, who they associate with, how successful they are in life, how spiritual or gifted they are, all in comparison to what you think you have achieved in life. This disease of comparing yourself to others is relentless and drives you into the ground. It is a clear symptom of a greater disease: not knowing and valuing Christ for who He is above your own self-focused obsession. How we need the freedom only Christ can give to our souls.

    Turn to John 21:20-22 "Peter turned and saw the disciple whom Jesus loved following them, the one who had been reclining at table close to him and had said, "Lord, who is it that is going to betray you?" When Peter saw him, he said to Jesus, "Lord, what about this man?" Jesus said to him, "If it is my will that he remain until I come, what is that to you? You follow me!" Basically, Jesus told Peter to stop comparing himself with John. Stop worrying about how he's going to die, just pay attention to following me all the way up to your own death!

    Come to Jesus for rest for your soul if this is your problem

  7. Rest from the effects of being hurt by someone in the past. Some of you here have been deeply hurt by people you trusted to love you in the past. There is no measuring the burden that is to your soul. If you haven't been completely healed of that betrayal and pain by the power of the blood of Jesus Christ, your soul is still tormented and not at rest. I just want you to know this morning that Jesus wills to heal you today. He says "Come to me and I will give you rest for your soul."

    Psalms 27:10 "For my father and my mother have forsaken me, but the Lord will take me in." Even if your very own parents are the ones who hurt you deeply, the Lord will take you in and heal you.

    Come to Jesus for rest for your soul if this is your problem

  8. Rest from fear of futurecollapse of the economy, fear of death, fear of old age, etc. Fear of the future is a most powerful fear that twists and bends the soul. People wake up at night in a cold sweat fearing all sorts of things. The devil tries to cripple you through fear but God says "Do not fear for I am with you, do not be dismayed for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." Isa. 41:10 Why did Jesus come to earth? Turn with me to Hebrews 2:14-15 "Since therefore the children share in flesh and blood, he himself likewise partook of the same things, that through death he might destroy the one who has the power of death, that is, the devil, 15 and deliver all those who through fear of death were subject to lifelong slavery." Are you carrying around a never ending low-grade fear of a bunch of things? That is not how Christ wants you to live. It's time to begin trusting God Almighty with you life and future. Embrace Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for wholeness and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope." Come to Jesus for rest for your soul if this is your problem

  9. Rest from fear of what may happen to loved ones. We love our children and spouses so much that we often have a very heavy burden on our hearts about what might happen to them. We worry about their futures as well as our own. We might project on their future some of the hard experiences we have had in our own. I know I don't want my kids to go through some of the junk I've experienced in life. Yet, God is wiser than I am and He's in control of their lives, not me.

    No amount of my anxiety about their lives produces anything good in their lives. Actually, the best thing I can do for them is to entrust them into God's sovereign goodness. They need to see me entrusting them to God rather than torturing my soul over their lives. All that shows is a lack of trust in God, and surely a lack of trust in God in my life isn't going to make them trust God more!

    Come to Jesus for rest for your soul if this is your problem

  10. Rest from hard task masters of bad habits. Bad habits beat the ever living daylights out of our souls. We feel so defeated when we can't seem to control certain habits, like eating, drinking, smoking, swearing, spending, whatever… Do you have a sinful habit that is getting you down, making you weary? Paul made a statement that indicates that there is freedom from anything that tries to enslave us. 1 Corinthians 6:12 "All things are lawful for me," but not all things are helpful. "All things are lawful for me," but I will not be enslaved (or mastered) by anything."

    This freedom only comes from the power of Christ Jesus. Come to Jesus for rest for your soul if this is your problem.

I've listed only 10 Rest Robbers. Submitting your life to Christ brings peace from all such thieves! What are you going to do this morning? Are you going to hang on to the things that are wearing you down, or are you going to come up here after we close and pray with me about Freedom in Christ? What's it going to be?

Let's pray,

H.

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